A few might wonder why I am not using a back track
But let’s track back to the earliest examples of love
Starting with Adam and Eve
Eve was created from Adam’s rib
Meaning that wherever she went, he would always be a part of her and never apart from her
For you are bone of his bone
Flesh of his flesh
You two are now one being
You were two bodies that used to dance and mingle
And through this marriage, you have become one flesh, so you will always be single
“Because what Christ has put together, let not man put asunder.”
See , I don’t know much about marriage but I do know that unity is important
Now let’s move onto Jacob and Rachel
Jacob loved Rachel
He wanted to marry her, not just date her
But under one condition; that for seven years he had to be her dad’s laborer
After seven years, Rachel’s father tricked him into marrying his other daughter, Leah
And only after another seven years would he be able to marry Rachel
So he labored for seven more years
Those seven years felt like months turned to weeks turned to days turned to hours turned to minutes turned to seconds turned to… Okay maybe I’m taking it too far
But that time passed by so quickly for him, for love in its purest form can stand the test of time
See, I don’t know much about marriage, but the love that it requires is persistent
Let’s take a look at Abraham and Sarah
Sarah was a submissive wife
She was intelligent and a capable woman who understood her purpose in life
She made it her mission to assist her husband in fulfilling his task
That was God’s will and not her own
And her submission helped Abraham complete his mission
Abraham moved from place to place
Equipped with love and faith
Yet there were times where off the straight and narrow path they strayed
Abraham barely asked Sarah for advice
And Sarah chose to obey Abraham, where the will of God was compromised
See, I don’t know much about marriage but I do know it needs eternal faith
What about Isaac and Rebecca
For when she had to leave with Isaac
She didn’t simply say that she had to leave her parents but that she had to leave at once
See, I don’t know much about marriage but I do know that it must be certain
That the law has made marriage a breakable contract but nothing compares to the law of the Lord
And once again, “What God has put together , let not man put asunder.”
That love that marriage needs should make you want to bow down before God each day, thanking Him for blessing you with someone amazing
A love that makes you want to pinch yourself daily for you are in disbelief that God was mindful enough to bless you with each other
It should be as certain as one plus one is two
A love that is balanced between friends and family and is based on God
A love that makes you want to fall in love with the same person daily
A love that is like reading your favourite book over and over again
For you know you won’t grow tired of it
A love that is pure and unaltered
A love that will make angels dance around God’s throne
A love that matures and grows like fine wine
And reaches heights higher than Mount Everest
A love that is as deep as the Grand Canyon
A love that can withstand the drought in the Sahara Dessert
Or the harsh waves of the sea
A love that survives hurricanes, tsunamis, volcanoes, tornadoes and monsoons
For pure love can overcome anything
A love that is not bound by earthly things
A love that’s worth the hurt and sadness that might occasionally come with it
A love that doesn’t give up when arguments arise, one that is understanding and patient
One that is pure , true, right , just and infinite
But as I said, I don’t know much about marriage.
Images taken by Charissa Cassels of Roy and Nedia Cassels