So I’ve noticed that many people don’t know how to describe us
Us, being women
Us, being the very embodiment of what resilience is
Us, being the bearers of generations to come
Us, also being the very people that they easily disrespect
Us, being the people who are expected to keep quiet while witnessing injustices and inequalities
The people that they constantly try to put down
Us, being the same people who get back up whenever they try to do that
I find it fitting to define exactly who it is that we are
We are Queens
And we are Queens since birth
I see hair wrapped up in head wraps
Hair wrapped up not knowing that our hair is yet to be silver and people are yet to come to us for wisdom
Skin that’s been dipped in melanin so many times that people can’t help but realize that we are born Queens
That our hands are here to mould them
And our words are here to chisel them
That for endless years we have had to carry them on our backs and for years to come
We will never allow them to take us back
To the times where they placed us under their feet
For there is no place fit for a Queen
They will find maps of their existence all over our bodies
As we have stretched continuously for them
Our nails are covered with different colours
Trying to cover the dirt from beneath them from the soil we continuously fertilize for their growth
Our shoulders have carried the weight of the world on it and then some
We have been at war since birth
Emerging as prayer warriors, gracing people with our presence here on Earth
And people need to stop questioning our worth
I said we are Queens, and we have been Queens since birth
Our names are too heavy for anyone to carelessly carry it in their mouths
Our existence is something many still have to come to terms with
Our history is something they have tried to erase
But you can’t erase what is running through our veins
It wasn’t fought for us in vain
Our strength is something many will never be able to grasp
They have tried and will try to break us down
But we have never allowed ourselves to be broken down by what we have built
They are yet to discover who we truly are
And all the power that we really possess
And yes, this is a praise poem
Because I don’t hear enough people singing our praises
I don’t see enough people genuinely appreciating us
I don’t see enough people accepting us for who we really are
I said we are Queens
And we have been Queens since birth
We don’t need to be told what we’re worth
But here are just a few words
Courageous, caring, loving, powerful, warriors, beautiful, generous, intelligent and respectful
Just a few words that can be used to describe us instead of those offensive words that easily escape people’s mouths
And no, I am not angry
Although that emotion seems to be intrinsically linked with our very existence.
I am excited for our futures
Not necessarily for the occupations we will acquire
But for the mere fact that I can confidently say that I do not stand alone
That I am not on my own
That I am surrounded by women of immense beauty both inside and out
That I am surrounded by prayer warriors
That I am surrounded by hands that have reached out to help one another
That I am surrounded by people with brilliant minds who have already acquired so much wisdom
That I am surrounded by people whom we know will always be there but whom we don’t always have to speak to
I am surrounded by people
I am surrounded by women
Women of Strength
Women of Courage
Women of Hope
Women of Faith
Women of Love
I am surrounded by Queens and we have been Queens since birth
I am surrounded by women and we have been Queens since birth
Say it in your mind over and over again and don’t allow anyone to make you believe otherwise
Say it every day as your daily reminder
Say it until you believe it
Say it until you accept it
Say it until you see yourself for who you really are
You are Queens and you have been Queens since birth.
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Feature Image taken by Lelethu Qabisisa.